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If you are dealing with anger or grief and want help to heal and move through it - this Case example may help you.
An existing client recommended me to Jag. Her friend was deeply concerned about her. Jag, although somewhat apathetic about it, agreed to speak with me.
A quiet woman, she seemed tense and discouraged. Interestingly there was an underlying agitation to her words, her voice and her manner.
The agitation alerted me and indicated that there was more to this situation than the presenting issue of her getting irritated and frustrated too much of the time.
Investigating a little more it became clear that there was real anger that she was attempting to suppress and it was driving her agitation.
Jags showed a remarkable ability to adapt to her new life as a mother while
grieving for her own.
Once Jags realised that the circumstances of the events and the loss were out
of her hands, she did a stellar job of being a mother herself.
She was able to move on with her life without the constant prolonged anger
making her feel she was not worthy.
The guilt was relieved and both she and her son are thriving.
My first actual contact with Belynder was a verbal chat.
Within 10 mins, she was able to hit the nail on the head regarding what my inner demon could be.
It really got me thinking and I had never linked my feelings of frustration to this, instead she put it down to the bereavement and dealing with life without my mother and with me looking after a small baby.
My actual session was very emotional and for weeks after I felt different, more aware and became more present. I realised my issues were much deeper and from a young age. However, my bereavement triggered it off. I feel much more emotionally at peace and for me the key was being present and in control.
I would totally recommend Belynder as even if you don’t think you need therapy, just make contact and have your initial chat.
You will soon realise if this is the awareness and the treatment is for you.
I wish I had done this treatment years ago.
Jag, Nottingham